Wise Counsel

I received some insightful words of wisdom today from a friend - who thankfully gives me some of the best Godly counsel EVER!

Boundaries = Behavior

Control = Feelings

While these words bring some insight to some issues I am dealing with at the moment....the enemy is still trying to confuse me when it comes to discernment regarding these two issues. As God brings to the surface issues that I need to deal with....it never fails that the fine line between "boundaries" and "control" become a frustrating obstacle and distraction. Does this ring true with anyone else out there?